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Don’t you dare forget your dreams

Don’t you dare forget your dreams

Jan 14, 2022
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Shaffy Bello shared some remarkable advise for women struggling with making decisions about their dreams and their homes.

She said:

What I will say is that there is time for everything. If your children are still young, you need to nurture them. They didn't ask to come, you brought them, so give them that time. Nurture them. Give them such a good foundation that you can trust it, so when it's time for you to fly, you can fly.

It is not going to be easy, but you have to trust yourself. You have to trust that you can have your marriage, your children and your career. Some people are, so why not. It didn't work for me, but it doesn't mean it won't work for every woman. You just have to find your own niche, and find what works for you.

But don't you dare forget yourself and your dreams.


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Quote for the day

“Your need for acceptance can make you invisible in this world.” — Jim Carrey

One more for the road

“Underlying all of these ideas is the notion of connection - we are connected within and without. What we think and feel affects how we will act and how others will act as well. The depth of our feelings and actions is a critical variable in "attracting" what we want to our lives.”

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