Some things are hard.
And somethings are easy.
Not everything is hard. And not everything is easy.
The mistake often comes when we insist that everything is either hard or it’s easy.
No, our job is to look properly at each situation, each person, each activity, each circumstance and then decide which is which so our actions can be informed, and effective.
To insist on a narrative of ‘easy’ or ‘hard’ without looking property is to choose laziness, and to abdicate our responsibility as human beings.
Don’t do that to yourself. Be open to figuring out, and embracing reality, as it is.