Sitemap - 2021 - #WithChude
Respect yourself, love yourself
Greatest lesson life taught a 90-year old
Allow others the space to love and be loved
We are here to comfort each other
There is nothing you can't forgive
Beware of advice - plus other pieces of advice
Pursue excellence, not perfection
What to do when you make a mistake
Learn from the mistakes others make
Everything is material for you
Let the world do the work for you
Feedback Friday: "Our world needs this"
Feedback Friday: "I can be both teacher and student fully"
Look carefully for opportunities
Feedback Friday: "Spark of hope"
Don’t be afraid to show up imperfect
Feedback Friday: "You can do adulting with peace and joy"
What drives you inside determines what you do
An honest conversation about politics
The greatest lesson life taught Akah Nnani
"God has answered your prayers"
Feedback Friday: "You've taught me lessons I'll keep"
“Becoming a woman is not a day job”
Do it differently - even if no one cares
Feedback Friday: "This is change for me"
Your mind matters more than fame
"I didn't want to breakdown on national TV"
"Have a life outside of Instagram"
Take care of home before impressing the street
Join Nkechi Blessing Sunday on #WithChude
The greatest lesson life taught Rita Dominic
"I think God has left the church a long time ago"
"This betrayal compares to nothing"
What do you do when trouble comes?
Join Toke Makinwa on #WithChude
The greatest lesson life taught Biola Alabi
"You need space to become yourself again"
"This doesn’t even feel like my life"
Join Biola Alabi on #WithChude
The greatest lesson life taught Funke Akindele
Don't be pressured to get married
"You are human. You are allowed to breakdown"
Join Funke Akindele on #WithChude
The greatest lesson life taught Cee-C
"Whatever happens on the show, I'll be fine"
Fame comes with negativity and positivity
"Why people were scared of me"
Pursue understanding, not just simplicity
The greatest lesson life taught Adunni Ade
"Why I tolerated an abusive marriage for long"
Why you shouldn't think of what 'people' think
Forgive, even if you don't forget
"When things happen to people, they change"
Knowing when failure is golden
Focus on what matters the most
Do you like the person that you are?
Are you ready for a new season?
"I was afraid of what I could do to myself"
Your feeling it doesn't make it true
My experience after 14 abortions
Radical acceptance is possible - if you practice it
The pregnancy loss isn't your fault
The price of being a celebrity
Agency: one of your most precious resources
You are either authentic or not
Prayer is good. But get help too.
Watch the throwback on #WithChude
Every day is a chance to be a better person
The greatest lesson life taught Omotola Jolade
#ChudesBookClub: The joys of motherhood
When can you trust your intuition?
Join Richard Mofe Damijo on #WithChude
The greatest lesson life taught Charles Novia
#ChudesBookClub: Turning the Flywheel
Pause and evaluate before speaking online
“What Majek Fashek told me before he died”
Not every gift is worth receiving
Join Charles Novia on #WithChude
The greatest lesson life has taught Ayo Animashaun
#ChudesBookClub: The mechanics of Yenagua
“I have to live a life of integrity”
“I have to live a life of integrity”
Join Ayo Animashaun on #WithChude
Showing vulnerability is a sign of strength
The greatest lesson life has taught Denrele Edun
#ChudesBookClub: The Mad House
Don’t find love outside of yourself
Join Denrele Edun on #WithChude
The Greatest Lesson Life Has Taught Jumoke Adenowo
#ChudesBookClub: Laws of Human Nature
"It is not good for man to be alone" is not a marriage but feminist text
“There is a fourth dimension to my architecture”
Join Jumoke Adenowo on #WithChude
"Being a mum has given me a perspective about everything else"
Greatest Lesson Life Has Taught Toolz
“The first made me stronger for the second”
“It’s not always in your control, but you’ll get through it”
What does sanity look like in an insane world?
"I don't want to go back to my old life"
“Visualize, manifest and take a move”
“I put so much pressure on myself”
Promote flourishing in your life. Here is how.
Promote flourishing and meaning in your life. Here is how.
“It’s the same thing that brings us down and lifts us up”
"I felt vulnerable opening up"
#ChudesBookClub: News from Home
“Yaba Left is full of broken hearts and broken dreams”
"Suicide is not an act of cowardice"
Our Greatest Misunderstanding about Love
Join Betty Irabor on #WithChude
“I thought I’ve killed my cousin”
#ChudesBookClub: Once Upon Four Robbers
“When the lights go off, do you really like the person you are?”
Who is the kindest person you know?
Join Denola Grey on #WithChude
“What is the greatest lesson life has taught you?“
"Help your kids learn new skills"
Nigeria is a very lucky country
“Solve one problem and make money from it”
Where are the tools you need - when you want them?
Join the Worker's Day edition of #WithChude tomorrow
"I didn't want to be a pastor"
#ChudesBookClub: Cynical Theories
Stop being agitated over things that are temporal
Want to keep your relationship on solid ground? Get enough sleep
Join Eucharia Anunobi on #WithChude
"Religion is about connecting to the creator"
#ChudesBookClub: I will marry when I want
No one can bring you out of pain until you’re ready
“The most important lesson I’ve learnt”
#ChudesBookClub: The Naked Gods
Experiencing death and life - at the same time
Your life can change in a second
Get positive energy around you
“I have children that I take care of”
It is fine to feel things deeply, even if nobody else understands
“How Anjola affected me” (updated)
When another character took over
Join Rita Dominic on #WithChude
Are people too afraid of your ego?
You must know for yourself what you want to be
"It was like something died in me"
Is it possible to be happy, every single day?
Join Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde on #WithChude
Happiness comes from being proud of yourself
I choose spirituality over religion
Loss will beat you down if you allow it
Tell those you love that you love them
Write your own emotional agility manifesto
Join Teni Makanaki on #WithChude
Remind yourself of the things you've learnt
Life is a tragedy if you make it a tragedy
The 5 greatest lessons I have learnt in the past year
What will you tell your future self?
The conversation I didn’t know I needed
Be grateful, even to your addictions
"A lecturer failed me to get my attention"
Listen - even when it’s uncomfortable
Join Chioma Agwuegbo tomorrow on #WithChude
Intentions matter, but actions matter more
Communicate how you feel, no matter what it is
Love is a decision to serve another human being
How to be lonely, and another way to define happiness
There is absolutely nothing you cannot survive
Be comfortable in your own skin
Show up, do the work, get better
What living with Tourette Syndrome has taught me (II)
Feel your emotions all the way
Be a happy person before you step into a relationship
Don't confuse love with sentimentalism
What living with Tourette Syndrome has taught me
Throuples, Ghosting, Situationships & More
You have to fight if you want to live
Carry the memory, not the pain
A scary thought (updated link)
The three kinds of happy people. Which are you?
What I learnt from my interview with Adeola Azeez
Whatever life throws at you is life
Embrace reality of adversity and keep moving
Invest in your emotional future
A better way to respond to cravings
Life happens in what is not said
You cannot force people to feel
Becoming indistractable is possible
Surround yourself with people that will offer you grace
Your views are allowed to change
There is nothing shameful about being human
Building a new habit takes time
Exercising power over ourselves
It’s always within your power to choose how you show up